Tuesday, 10 June 2014

Diagnosis for Dad = Cancer!

Today I travelled to the city where my dad lives, to the hospital to be exact. Dad phoned me on Saturday morning to say he couldn't move in bed. I rang the ambulance and to cut the story short, he was admitted to hospital. I travelled down, then again on Sunday, then today. The journey is 1..1/2 hours one way. The Dr. came late this afternoon to tell dad and myself, that he has bone cancer, no cure, and it had most likely gone elsewhere. That's life. Have no idea how long he has, but rest assured I will be not far away...
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22 comments:

  1. AnonymousTuesday, 10 June 2014 at 22:45:00 GMT+10

    I am so sorry about this diagnosis for your dad. I have come to know and respect him thru your blog. I will be praying for you both. Sending my love across the miles.

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  2. AdamTuesday, 10 June 2014 at 22:59:00 GMT+10

    The same happened to my father except a little different. He had lung cancer which spread before they found out. I think he had a year after that before he passed away. I'm sorry to hear your news, it's never easy.

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    1. Margaret DTuesday, 10 June 2014 at 23:05:00 GMT+10

      Oh I'm sorry Adam, not a good way to go but then again what way is good!
      Thank you for your kind words.

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  3. yevishaTuesday, 10 June 2014 at 23:06:00 GMT+10

    i'm so sorry to hear this very sad news M. your dad and your family are in my prayers. xxx

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    1. Margaret DWednesday, 11 June 2014 at 08:35:00 GMT+10

      Thanks F. Our sons phoned him last evening, so that was nice for my dad. xx

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  4. BethTuesday, 10 June 2014 at 23:13:00 GMT+10

    Prayers for your dad and you all! I am so very sorry! HUGS!!!!

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    1. Margaret DWednesday, 11 June 2014 at 08:36:00 GMT+10

      Thank you Beth. You yourself have been through the mill so to speak so you know only too well. xxx

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  5. GosiaWednesday, 11 June 2014 at 02:43:00 GMT+10

    What a pity. Our parents are the most important people in our life. I hope your father will survive it painlessly. Take care.

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    1. Margaret DWednesday, 11 June 2014 at 08:39:00 GMT+10

      Thank you Gosia. Yes, our parents are important to us, teaching us many things through out our lives and theirs. My dad is mentally sharp, in other words nothing wrong with his brain. He is 90 and has a good life.

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  6. Buttons ThoughtsWednesday, 11 June 2014 at 04:58:00 GMT+10

    Oh M I have tears in my eyes my dear friend. We have been thorough lots of things over the years and I wish I could be there to help you and give you hugs. I know we have never met but you, as well as I know that does not matter one bit, you are like my family I really care.. I am with you and sending hugs and prayers for you and your family. Make sure to take care of yourself too, that is very important for you and your family. OK. HUG xoxoxox G

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    1. Margaret DWednesday, 11 June 2014 at 08:41:00 GMT+10

      Oh G - thanks for such kinds words & the prayers.. Yes, we are like family you and I. Thanks for caring my dear friend. You take care, Hugs M xxox

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  7. RosemaryWednesday, 11 June 2014 at 10:16:00 GMT+10

    I am so sorry to learn this terrible news. I do hope that he does not suffer and that the hospital manage to keep him comfortable.

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    1. Margaret DThursday, 12 June 2014 at 22:55:00 GMT+10

      Thank you Rosemary for your kind thoughts. He has pain but it's managed.

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  8. AnonymousWednesday, 11 June 2014 at 16:03:00 GMT+10

    Very sad to hear about this news. Prayers for him to be good!

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  9. LindaSaturday, 14 June 2014 at 00:55:00 GMT+10

    My heart goes out to you and your father. I will be praying for both of you.

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  10. CynthiaMonday, 16 June 2014 at 20:37:00 GMT+10

    I'm so sorry to hear that your dad has cancer. I hope that he will be able to remain comfortable and that you have sweet times together through this time.

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  11. diane bMonday, 23 June 2014 at 09:53:00 GMT+10

    This is sad news. I know how much you care for your dad. I hope he doesn't suffer too much. My dad died of bone cancer.

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